1931 - 1993 (62 years)
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Name |
George E Verschelden |
Suffix |
Jr. |
Born |
20 Jan 1931 |
St. Marys, Pottawatomie County, Kansas |
Gender |
Male |
Died |
15 Nov 1993 |
Topeka, Shawnee County, Kansas |
Buried |
Mount Calvary Cemetery, St. Marys, Pottawatomie County, Kansas |
Person ID |
I6809 |
Rossville |
Last Modified |
18 Apr 2018 |
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| Obituary- Verschelden, George E. d. 1993 1 George E. Verschelden
ST. MARYS — George E. Verschelden, 62, St. Marys, died Monday, Nov. 15, 1993, at a Topeka hospital.
Mr. Verschelden was a funeral director and embalmer. He had operated the Verschelden Funeral Home in St. Marys since 1952. The funeral home has been in the Verschelden family since 1894.
He was born Jan. 20, 1931, at St. Marys, the son of George E. and Catherine Johnston Verschelden, and lived all his life in St. Marys. He was graduated from St. Marys High School and from Kansas City College of Mortuary Science in Kansas City. Kan.
Mr. Verschelden was a member of Immaculate Conception Catholic Church, Knights of Columbus Council No. 657, St. Marys Chamber of Commerce, St. Marys Housing Authority, the Board of Directors of St. Marys Senior Center and served on the Parish Council of the church. He also
was a member of Kansas Funeral Directors Association, National Funeral Directors Association and Sunflowers Striders in Topeka where he
was an avid runner.
He was married to Peggy Mercier
Aug. 2, 1952, at Wymore, Neb. She survives.
Other survivors include three daughters, Patricia Verschelden, St. Marys, Cia Verschelden, Manhattan, and Mary Pezza, Wichita; four sons, David Verschelden, Marysville, Matthew Verschelden, Fairway, Timothy Verschelden, Lees Summit, Mo., and Mark Verschelden, Shawnee; three sisters, Janet White, New Carlisle, Ohio, Katrina Clark, Topeka, and Maria Hutley, Dodge City; two brothers, Robert Verschelden, Manhattan, and Michael Verschelden, Garland, Texas; and 10 grandchildren.
Mass of Christian Burial will be at 10 a.m. Thursday in Immaculate Conception Catholic Church. Burial will be in Mount Calvary Cemetery at St. Marys. Mr. Verschelden will lie in state after 10 a.m. today at Verschelden Funeral Home where a rosary will be recited at 7 p.m. today. Memorial contributions may be made to Immaculate Conception Centennial Building Renovation or Pottawatomie-Wabaunsee Regional Library in care of the funeral home.
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| Funeral card- Verschelden, George E. d. 1993 2 In Loving Memory Of
George Verschelden
Born January 20, 1931
Died November 15, 1993
Mass of Christian Burial
10:00 a.m. Thursday
Immaculate Conception Church
St. Marys, Kansas
Celebrant- Father Carl M. Dekat
Lector- Paul Lenherr
Organist- Marty Ronnau
Vocalists- Diane DeBacker & David Steele
Rosary- 7:00 p.m. Wednesday
Verschelden Chapel
Honorary Bearers
Claud A. Johnson, Mark R. Higgins
Casket Bearers
John D. McEnroe, C.N. Sharp, George Perry, Dallas Diederich, Joe Flanagan, Dale Channel
Interment
Mount Calvary Cemetery
St. Marys, Kansas |
| Obituary- Verschelden, George E. d. 1993 3
There Will Never Be Another George!
by Dorothy N. Hoobler
How many times have you heard those words, or expressed a similar sentiment yourself, in the long days since you first learned of the collapse of George Verschelden on Saturday afternoon, November 6? His death on November 15, 1993, left a void which will never be filled, not only in St. Marys, but in the surrounding communities as well. There are few families whose lives he has not touched.
George was a very special person, not only in his professional life, but in his personal life, too. He was a man whom we were all proud to call “friend.” The throngs who at¬tended the Rosary and the funeral are testimony of the respect he had earned from so many.
George E. Verschelden was born January 20, 1931, in St. Marys. He spent his entire life here. He loved this town and was one of its biggest boosters. He was one of the youngsters enrolled in Mrs. Katherine Guilfoyle’s kindergarten class. He from St. Marys High
School soon after the public and the parochial school systems merged.
A member of the Immaculate Conception Catholic Church and the Knights of Columbus Council No. 657, he also served on the Church Council. George was a long-time member of the Chamber of Commerce, and served on the St. Marys Housing Authority. He was on the Board of Directors of the St. Marys Senior Center, although he was too young to be a “senior citizen.”
Verschelden graduated from the Kansas City College of Mortuary Science. He followed in the professional footsteps of his grandfather, known as Dr. O. Verschelden, a native of Belgium, and his own parents, George and Catherine Johnston Verschelden. The Verschelden Funeral Home has been in the family since 1894, and is the oldest continuously existing family-owned firm in St. Marys. George had operated the mortuary since 1952.
On August 2, of that same year, he was married. His bride was the pretty high school music teacher with the beautiful voice, Miss Marguerite Mercier of Wymore, Nebr. She’s better known as Peggy.
Working together, George and Peggy made a good team. Although it must have been very difficult to face the grim reality of death so frequently, they never failed to offer compassion and comfort to those who mourned. They had a special way of helping you through that rough time, and you always knew they really did care.
Everyone who knew him has his own favorite “George Story.” My first “Whatever would we do without George?’ experience happened many years ago, when he also provided the town with ambulance service. As critically ill as I was, I vividly remember his gentleness as he helped lift me onto the stretcher. He drove quickly, but cautiously. (There was no speed limit in those years.) And, he thoughtfully waited at the hospital until my husband arrived.
Over the years, I have come to realize this concern was “typically George.” He treated everyone with the same kindness and consideration.
As a funeral director and embalmer, George had a special talent, a rare gift. No matter how ill, aged, or infirm your loved one had been, he did his job so well, you were left with a good memory. So many times, I complimented him with a phrase from an old Gospel hymn, “You got another star in your crown today.” He’d smile that shy, embarrassed “ah, shucks” smile. George was extremely competent, but he was also very modest. As he saw it, he was only doing his job.
A member of the Sunflower Striders, Topeka, he was an avid runner. Running was a challenge, and a change from the stress of his occupation. What irony that he collapsed just after completing his last race. And, yet, I think of George when I read the Scripture verse in 2 Timothy, “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race. I have kept the faith.”
It is also fitting that a memorial fund has been established for two of his special interests, the Immaculate Conception Centennial Building Restoration and the Pottawatomie Wabaunsee Regional Library.
George Verschelden is survived by his wife and his partner, Peggy; four sons — David, Matthew, Timothy, and Mark; three daughters — Patricia, Cia, and Mary; two brothers — Robert and Michael; two sisters — Katrina and Maria; and ten grandchildren.
George loved his wife, his children, his grandchildren, his church, his community, and his friends. He was loved in return. There are times when there seem to be no words to adequately express just how sad and helpless we feel. George’s untimely death is one of those occasions.
To Peggy and the family, we can only say, “We are so sorry and we really care. We offer our love, our sympathy, and our prayers.”
And, to our friend, George, who gave so much so willingly, we say, “Thank You” and “Peace.”
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